How to Design Kid Friendly Spaces for your House

25.02.25 01:48 PM - By krista

Designing a Kid-Friendly Home: Smart Tips for a Happy, Functional Space

I am a mother of 3 (currently 5, 9, and 11), and have been through some of the major hurdles of early childhood with my kids and visited many farms with kids at various ages. Kids are difficult as it is without extra hurdles making life more difficult. So I have compiled a list of considerations to design with kids and families in mind to make you space and life that much easier. 

Children up to 15 make up 25% of the population so they are worth paying attention to! They live here too and it is empowering to make them feel like it’s their spaces too!
I dug out my old graphic standards book to look at the sizes for designing for kids! Credit – Architectural Graphics Standards, 1989 (I did by it used in case any of you are counting)
  • Lower Light switches.
There is no particular standard for electrical switch heights, so why not put them a little lower. This allows kids the opportunity to turn off their light on their own everyday (hope springs eternal). It allows them to go up to their room and get something on their own even when its dark and scary because they can reach the light switch! Saving you the 100th climb up the stairs today! 

  • Extra counter space in a downstairs washroom for changing.
Most of us put a change table in the babies room, but for most of us we spend our time downstairs and every change is a run up the stairs. Adding a few extra feet to the main floor washroom can save us those few extra runs upstairs with a baby or toddler in hand (unless you need the exercise regime!) 

  • A mud/laundry sink –

Kids love mess and play and its good for them. Embracing the mess is easier when you have ability to clean up easier. So put a large tub sink that can get messy and out of the way is super handy for lots of purposes, paint, mud, stains, soaking, etc. 


  • Use Lever door handles.
Instead of knob handles which then need a child protection plastic cover use lever handles. No coordination, no skill anyone can use them. Unless you want them to stay in a room, like a front door or bedroom for nap time. So you can be selective or add locks to particular off limit doors. 

  • Self closing screens on doors!
Stop letting the flies in! Using a self closing screen door or even closers on certain doors can ensure that kids close the door behind their tiny bums! And you won’t have to live in a barn (unless it’s a barn house) 

  • Lots of storage and cubbies and places for things to go away.
This seems obvious and I could make a very long list of storage needs (and maybe I will.. ) But you will likely need more than you think. 

  • Snacks, fridges, pantries are reachable heights –
Another way to encourage independence is to move snacks to lower shelves so kids can feed themselves. Obviously don’t put the chips and unhealthy choices within reach, but give them ability to choose and learn to listen to their needs and fill them. Some fridges have lower compartments for fridge space rather than freezer, you can use for fresh fruit and veggies. 

  • Tub with spill protection.
You all probably have memories of splashing in the tub and Mom or Dad yelling to stop making the mess. Well you can embrace that childhood memory and the mess with a wet room. Put your bathtub in the shower space or in a wet room or allow spillable access to a drain. This will just make everyone happier! 
Tub in the shower or wet room to allow fun play and spill-ability
  • Windows and view to play areas.
Make sure the spaces you often work in, like the kitchen or office have a view to the kids play area or even a door. This can give kids independence and a peace of mind for parents. 

  • Play areas in protected areas –
make sure play areas have shade and wind protection. If the space is comfortable for kids they will more likely head out on their own. 

  • Separate space for kids –
having a space that is separate for mess, noise and clutter is nice to have. It's even better if its closer to main spaces like the kitchen. When my kids were younger (and still), like to play close to where I am working so the toys do tend to migrate into the main spaces more than I like. 

  • Tall space –
Having 1 tall space gives you some fun options for your kids. You can put an indoor climbing wall, a swing, silks, monkey bars, raised fort. 
Major benefit of a barn house is lots of tall spaces. Every kid who visits my kids get very excited about our tire swing inside! We now have an arial silks instead for my daughter (she may join the circus one day).
  • Lower sinks –
We all know the struggles of bedtime routines. How about add some independence for them and you at an earlier stage. Lower a portion of the counter and lower the sink height. Give them their space and they will feel more in control of themselves. 
Lowered sink from the rest of the bathroom makes bedtime that much easier for my kids to be independent
And just for a little fun, have a circle for kids to run around (preferably that avoids the kitchen)! When I was a lid we had an old farmhouse but a circle, through the kitchen, corner of the living room up the stairs through the hall, through my parents bedroom, and down and around again. It was great. Barn house 1 has a “cube” we can run around. 

You may have noticed that many of these suggestions are also close to barrier free requirements. These suggestions are very helpful for aging in place. As you become less mobile, many of these techniques will come back to extend the time you can live in your dream home. 

Although many of these things your kids may outgrow, they will make the earlier years easier and encourage independence sooner in life. Kids need to feel that their house is their space as well. A small gesture to help them not feel like they aren’t just living in an adult world. 

These are some general ideas, and the specifics to get it right are important. VELD architect spends the thinking time needed to get these details right for you!

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krista